community https://adifferentnarrative.com Thu, 11 Aug 2022 03:13:37 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 https://adifferentnarrative.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/favicon.ico community https://adifferentnarrative.com 32 32 214448203 Precious Omomofe, Class of 2024 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/08/11/precious-omomofe-class-of-2024/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=precious-omomofe-class-of-2024 Thu, 11 Aug 2022 03:13:35 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=559 From my experience at Pomona, it seems pretty good so far. Academic wise Pomona is very much up there and they have a lot of resources for students to make sure they can succeed and get the help they need. They have the QSC which is where a lot of Black people hang out, especially at night. My first semester we were all always there with the seniors and some of the juniors just doing work or chilling together. There are other resources like tutoring and mentoring and all that, and the professors are understanding. It also depends on which department you are in. I am in the science department. I know my professors are more understanding to a certain extent, but econ they are not as understanding. It also depends on your relationship with the professor. In terms of like, the racial culture, there are little microaggressions here and there, but they are not as bold as to say something big. And for me especially, I tend to keep my circle very POC; I surround myself with a lot of Black people and most of the people I talk to are Black. I have experienced microaggressions from people who come on campus because I work for PP athletics, so talking to other parents or adults who are white is where I have experienced microaggressions. I had an issue with a professor: he was not catering to the Black students, but we talked it out and we fixed it and everything. So there are definitely people here who will help you if you ever bring up an issue. The BSU, which I am in, has a lot of events and we encourage first years to join BSU so you can know the dynamic and everything. I feel like the Black people here all kind of know each other and we all hang out and look out for each other. It’s really nice because I feel like I have a community here. We all talk to each other and we collaborate. I have a lot of friends from the other 5Cs. The Black people here, even if you don’t know each other will still say “hi” because that’s just how it is here. Every school has its own issues with racism and anti-blackness, and Pomona definitely does have its issues but I feel like every college is about how you make the most of it, how you approach the problem, and how you almost live around the problem. I feel like a lot of the Black students here are very conscious of that so we try to make Pomona a better place for us and a more accommodating space for us. I like everyone I have met here, it does have its issues, but it is a good school.

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Aisha Jallow, Class of 2022 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/03/22/aisha-jallow-class-of-2022/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=aisha-jallow-class-of-2022 Tue, 22 Mar 2022 22:21:53 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=503 There is definitely a lack of resources when it comes to the counseling center there is a lack of therapists in general but also a lack of Black therapists and Black women specifically, especially when trying to talk about struggles relating to racial issues and racism. Although Black affinity housing is needed, it is not the best housing that AU could have given us. They did renovations, but the bathrooms and some main areas were not renovated as they said they would. There should be more support for affinity to host events. Last year they said we couldn’t order food for our events which really hurt our events like the Caribbean affinity group because that is how we gather people. It hurt our turnout. While the rule was supposed to stop the spread of COVID (the dining hall was still serving buffet style, and people were still eating together), it kind of only hurt the affinity groups with an appreciation for family-style meals even the Asian American student organization. It became more expensive to get them done pre-packaged style. I do feel represented at AU, I came into AU already in organizations. I barely left high school, but I was in African student organization which I am the president of today. And I had a lot of strong Black female figures to look up to and go to for advice and I really admired these girls for creating a Black community for AU. I was fortunate to be on the E board so I was able to meet with these juniors and seniors, but a lot of people may not have those same opportunities. Oftentimes when you come to a PWI, people think it will be hard to find the Black community, but college is what you make it and you are not the only person looking for people to be around. Go to events. You don’t have to be Caribbean to go to Caribbean events you don’t have to be African to go to African events, etc. Don’t be discouraged when ur entire floor is 99 percent non-Black, the 2 Black girls on my floor became 2 of my closest friends. Just keep going to events. The ASO pageant is open to everybody you don’t have to be African to come. We don’t have a big African community but we are open for anybody to learn about it.

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Karissa Frederick, Class of 2023 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/03/22/karissa-frederick-class-of-2023/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=karissa-frederick-class-of-2023 Tue, 22 Mar 2022 22:19:15 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=500 I would definitely say to an extent there is some segregation. Of course, we all take classes together, but in the residence hall, you won’t necessarily see the white kids and Black kids together. It isn’t a melting pot like they portray college to be. I wanted to join the AU pride club, but I didn’t because there aren’t a lot of Black people in the group. After class, I’m in my room because I don’t necessarily feel comfortable being on campus. There have been a lot of instances with black women specifically, not being treated the way we should be treated. Both by admin and by the student body. We are a PWI, so these instances are reflective of America, but it is very sad because we are labeled the most politically active school in the country. Most of the support I will say that I do receive is from the affinity groups: African student organization (ASO), Black student union, and Caribbean circle. In those spaces that are predominantly places for people of color is where I feel my issues are heard. We do have Black affinity housing. It is set aside just for black-identifying students to be a part of which is definitely a step in the right direction. We also have the center for diversity and inclusion (CDI). We have some representation in student leadership, but the student leadership is majority white. Our current student body president is a Black woman. Our student government has 10 Black senators. There is so much I wish the school would do more, but I don’t even know where to start. For me, I will say coming to this school was a cultural shock, being West Indian, I grew up and all of my friends were West Indian. I didn’t make friends maybe until my 2nd semester of freshman year. Therein lies the problem, many people on this campus tend to see Black people as a monolith. There are Caribbean/West Indian, African, etc. It was hard to find Black friends. I would hang around the African American kids, but there were certain things that were different. If anything, those groups get it more than the white kids. I wouldn’t say this is a problem so much now, but freshman year, I felt the black community was sort of cliquey. I guess it was hard to be accepted. “I look like you so why can’t we get along?” It definitely took a whole pandemic and coming back to school in my junior year to have that sense of acceptance or a black community. In a sense, I thought that I couldn’t get in. I do feel represented now. I see so many Black women on campus. (Side note: There are not many Black men on campus in general. A majority of the Black people here are women.) I was able to create not only a Black female friend group but a Black female community. The student body president is one of my close friends. A lot of them are on campus trying to make a change. I know the Black girls who come after me are definitely gonna have it easier than I did. Also, our school has a lot of engagement on social media. Not only do we post our current happenings, but we also try to have community-building events. For example, we had a mental health dialogue about Black mental health on campus. For Valentine’s day, we had a Black love event where we talked about what Black love looks like. Soon we have a love of diaspora ball. There is so much hardship outside so we don’t focus on that. We answer our DMs, we do a lot of collaboration events, we collaborated with AU pride recently, we collaborated with Caribbean students in the past. I am in the Black Student Union, but I still represented West India in the recent pageant. The Caribbean circle as well as ASO have a pageant. I was Miss Grenada because my family is from there. It is like Miss America, but the boys can participate too. We talk about food, our views, what we love about our country, etc. I love sharing my experiences and what I love about my country. There are so many kids on campus in different parts of the diaspora and we try to encourage everyone. If you’re not African, still come to the African events. If you are not Black, still come to the Black events. At the end of the day, we are all trying to build a community for each other. We don’t want to gatekeep anything. At the end of the day, we still share the same black skin color. We never want to divide each other inside the diaspora.

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Wayne Peterkin, Class of 2024 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/01/22/wayne-peterkin-class-of-2024/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=wayne-peterkin-class-of-2024 Sat, 22 Jan 2022 18:46:33 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=254 One night I went to socialize with my white neighbors because I spent a lot of my first semester inside. We hung out in one of their rooms, and it was just one other person. The person I was with propositioned me for drugs, and I decided to take a step out and try what he had. I had a bad trip, and while I was sitting there trying to process things, he and our other neighbors seemed to vibe with that kind of experience, as if it was normal. That day reinforced to me that my background, culture, and habits are not the same as theirs, and I need to be more cautious of when I enter their environments. It can be segregated, but it’s not on purpose. We acknowledge each other as POC in general spaces, and we hang out if the opportunity presents itself. But more often than not, we end up hanging out in groups we feel most comfortable with, like our identity organizations. The biggest resource is the BLACK STUDENT UNION! I am the current treasurer of BSU here at UVM. We host weekly meetings in our center for students of color. We put on events throughout the year to develop community for black students, including 2 of the biggest events of the year: Soul Food Social in November, and Fashion in February. We also have the mosaic center which has counselors we can talk to; they put on BIPOC events for us throughout campus, and they have the Women of Color Coalition club. That’s about it, we have to support ourselves. I wish UVM would season the food better or get POC to cook the food. Instead of having white chefs attempt to make staple cultural dishes. Do I feel represented at UVM? Not at all, I have to fight for representation. Mentally prepare yourself for the culture shock, bring whatever you can that makes you feel at home. Find friends that you can stress with over the hard experiences you will face and the difficult coursework.

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Kev Okogu, Class of 2022 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/01/22/kev-okogu-class-of-2022/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=kev-okogu-class-of-2022 Sat, 22 Jan 2022 17:23:20 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=236 American University is very diverse and inclusive of different genders, races, sexualities, etc. I’ve seen a lot of resources and phone numbers around campus that Black people can reach. I do not feel like my voice is heard on campus, but I don’t feel like I have much to say. The biggest piece of advice I’d give is to find your home. Find a community. It’s always good to find people like you so they can help you and you can help them as far as mental health and not feeling isolated go whether that is the Black student union or not.

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Anonymous, Class of 2024 https://adifferentnarrative.com/2022/01/22/anonymous-class-of-2024/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=anonymous-class-of-2024 Sat, 22 Jan 2022 16:50:54 +0000 https://adifferentnarrative.com/?p=222 Find your community!

I think O-week is a great experience and integral to the Rice community, but it essentially indoctrinates students into the general Rice body, and, more specifically, your residential college. While that can be an incredibly positive and wholesome experience, being surrounded by mainly white and other non-Black faces for a week straight can also feel extremely isolating. 

For that reason, my advice to any and all prospective Black students is to find your community!! Take advantage of the variety of Black clubs on campus (because we have a lot)! Join the Black Student Association (BSA) for instance. Or, if you’re looking for a more specifically African organization, join the Rice African Student Association (RASA).

Essentially, what I want to stress to all Black students is to take full advantage of any and all opportunities to connect with your community so you can find your place at Rice. 

Sincerely,

Anonymous Class of 2024

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